Substance Abuse with the Elderly: What to Do as a Caregiver

Understand the signs and actions needed for substance abuse. As your loved one gets older, it is easy to see them turn to substances to numb the pain they are feeling. We want to make sure you see these signs clearly and know how to properly handle this situation before it escalates into something worse.
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June 13, 2022
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Senior substance abuse is a serious problem in many communities. Many elderly people grew up during times when addiction was a forbidden topic. Unfortunately, the National Institutes of Health estimate that over a million elderly individuals in the U.S. suffer from substance use disorders. Your loved ones may not know the health risks of substance abuse. Even if they are knowledgeable, they can’t overcome the addiction alone.

The opposite of addiction is connection. You can make a positive difference in your loved ones’ lives. Find out what you can do as a caregiver to fight elderly substance abuse.

Know the Signs

Even though you spend most of your time caring for your loved ones, you might not notice some red flags that point to addiction. Two of the most commonly abused substances by the elderly are alcohol and prescription drugs. Knowing this information will help you notice warning signs of substance abuse.

Unusual Memory Problems

Memory problems are part of the natural aging process for many elderly people. While this alone does not mean your loved ones struggle with substance abuse, it can be a sign. If your loved ones are normally sharp and remember things easily, sudden memory loss is a red flag.

Alcohol and prescription drugs both cause long-term memory problems. When used together, these substances can seriously impair your loved one’s brain functions when used together. Keep an eye on them if you notice they suddenly can’t remember important information.

Weight Changes

Sudden weight gain or loss can be a sign of substance use disorders. Using intoxicating substances can affect a person’s weight over time. Some drugs cause sudden weight loss, while others can lead to weight gain.

For example, excessive drinking can quickly cause weight gain. Alcohol is made of carbohydrates and is high in calories. If you suspect your loved ones might have a problem with alcohol, try watching their weight.

Mental Health Symptoms

Depending on the drug, some substances can cause severe mental health problems. Symptoms can start mild and become more intense over time. Every drug affects a person’s mental health negatively in the long run. You know how your loved one normally behaves, so watch for unusual mental health symptoms.

Some symptoms to watch for include:

  • Paranoia
  • Aggression
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Social isolation
  • Loss of motivation
  • Hallucinations
  • Delusions
  • Bizarre speech patterns

If any of these signs appear in your loved ones, it could be a sign of substance abuse.

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Seek Professional Help

You don’t have to take on your loved one’s struggles with addiction by yourself. They need professional help to overcome their addictions and recover in healthy ways. Quitting substances suddenly can lead to serious health problems.

Search for professional addiction resources online to find local recovery centers. These places have counselors who are trained to deal with substance abuse. If you don’t have the financial resources for professional help, there are free helplines that can guide you.

Some places specialize in elderly substance abuse. There are often local support groups for both caregivers and people struggling with substance abuse. It’s important to seek support before things become overwhelming. You deserve to have people to talk to during this tough time.

Substance abuse disorders are complicated, and there is not just one simple solution. This is a health problem that needs professional treatment. In the meantime, you should continue to support your loved one with an open mind.

Remember that other people’s addictions are never your fault. Many complex factors can lead to substance abuse, and elderly people are particularly at risk. Social isolation, chronic pain, and health problems can drive elderly people to use substances. The best thing you can do is offer your support.

Make sure you take time to care for yourself when you can. Addiction is draining for many people in the family. Your loved ones know you are doing your best, and that’s all they need from you.

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Avoid Judgment

If you criticize your aging parents for their substance abuse, they probably won’t listen to anything you say. It’s important to express that you are not judging them for their struggles. The first step to getting substance abuse help is admitting that they have a problem. They are more likely to open up to you if you show empathy and warmth.

Try to use neutral language and avoid labeling your loved ones. For example, instead of saying, “you’ve been so cranky lately!”, try, “I see that you have felt more frustrated than normal lately.” By avoiding labels, you show your loved one that you are here to help.

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